Saturday, March 22, 2008

So Tuesday huh ?!?!?!


Our doctors appointment yesterday went well, but much different then we expected. Well I might need to go into a little more detail to help you understand what is about to happen next. SO for those of you who don't know after Rylie was born we had an IUD put in as a means of birth control. The pill was unsuccessful with Rylie and after researching this, we thought it was the most preventative method available. Several months later after missing my period, calling the on call doctor,and taking a pregnancy test Dr. Baca insisted I come into the emergency room for fear of an ectopic pregnancy. After a lengthy ultrasound all was found to be ok, the pregnancy was located in the uterus and very strong. Now the question was "Where is that IUD?" After much search it was found, in my lower left abdomen area. Somehow the thing punctured through my uterus and was NOT where it was placed. The radiologist stated it was only the second she had seen in 13 years. Dr. Baca wanted to leave it in as surgery that early in a pregnancy was way to risky. So we went home. A little in shock and with many questions. Our next appointment was 2 weeks later. We had another ultrasound. All looked great. We met with a different doctor and again expressed our concerns. She was also fabulous, felt we should leave it in but promised to research more for us.

This brings us to yesterday.

We met with Dr. Lasich who immediately told us we should have the IUD taken out at some point of the pregnancy. She then went on [very neutrally] to explain to us that we are a very rare case and they had no definite answer for us. The doctors had talked and reviewed our case. They called specialist's in Denver as well as the manufacturer IUD and it was all very 50/50. Half think we should leave it in, wait until after the baby is delivered and feel strongly it shouldn't harm anything.The other half want to take it out and are concerned that as the pregnancy progresses and other organs grow and get pushed together, something else will become punctured and this could be life threatening to me and the baby. So basically its up to us. We have decided to take it out. We simply feel if the IUD went through one MAJOR organ whats to stop it from going through another. This should be a simple outpatient surgery but the they do have to knock me out to do it. This leaves concern of course for the baby. Although the chances are very slim, there is a chance for miscarriage and for this we NEED your prayers. They feel the end of the first trimester is the safest time to perform this procedure due to the fact all of the baby's organs are formed and the uterus is still on the smaller side. The procedure should not take more then an hour ,if all goes well, so I wont be out that long. It is all happening pretty quick. We are scheduled for Tuesday at noon!! Myron's folks are here so Rylie will be well taken care of. And we feel the pieces simply have fallen together to have this procedure done. So we ask,beg, and plead that you pray for us and the baby during this procedure. That all will go smoothly and the baby will be unaffected and continue to grow and form and live.

The baby is doing very well. The heartbeat was VERY strong, 178. It was very exciting to hear. Rylie's poo's were getting better until the day at the hospital. She gets worried about her mama! So hopefully today will bring progress again.

Thank you again for thinking and praying for us during this time. We sure know we can count on all of you [especially if you read all that]!!

14 comments:

Becky Swann said...

Oh my heart goes out to you! I have already started praying, As we've already seen that IUD has nothing on this baby! This baby is a survivor! God is in control!
I'm sending my love and prayers your way right now!!!!
Thank you for sharing all that with us.

Jason said...

You are totally on my mind and in my prayers! The Lord will protect and take care of you both :) much love
XOXOXOX ~Heather

KatieKate said...

Holy Beans, Jess! Way to do things the hard way!!! Alright- so Tuesday. We're up for some serious prayin' and singin' on Tuesday. Rylie is shaking her head no right now, but that means yes these days.

Shanna Mac said...

178 bpm, eh? sounds like it might be another little girlie in there!!

it sounds like you're making a good choice in going ahead with the removal. you and the little one will do great. we'll be thinking about you four.

gracen is referring to your offspring as wywee and baby cow (Carr). we're working on enunciation;)

i love you.

katie said...

i sweet heart, this is aunt katie, i have already prayed and will continue, and put you on the prayer list at church tommorro and tuesday, we have our bible study so that is great. your going to get millions of prays and god answers prayer. hope you got in touch with your mother. god bless you have a great easter with riley, she should be fun. keep your feet up an let your mother in law cook. take care please aunt katie.

The Ledfords said...

You will do great Jess! That's awesome that Myron's parents are there to help you with Rylie! Please keep us posted on everything. You all are in our prayers!

Sunday Grant Photography said...

Oh my word!!!! I am so glad that you are taking it out and like Becky said this IUD has nothing on ya'll. We will do some praying for sure and we love you and we can't wait to pat that belly of yours!!!!

Wendy said...

we will be praying for you guys!

CortneyTree said...

Dang, Jess, I find your super-fertility somewhat intimidating. Sounds like you are getting the best advice available and making informed decisions, which is what it's all about, right? I'll be thinking of you and your family and praying for the best of all outcomes. I know you and baby will come through it all with flying colors! We love you!!!

Anonymous said...

Hello Carr family,

We are neighbors of the Carrs in BR and I just read your comments re: the surgery. Please know we will keep you and the baby uplifted in our prayers. I will also add you to my prayer list at work.

Blessings to you all.

Jim and Judy Veorse

PS - that strong heartbeat sounds like a little girl to me and you know how tough we girls are! :)

Unknown said...

We are def. praying for you all.
So sorry you have to go through this. Tues., it's on my calendar to pray.
Love you girl.
annie

Aunt Nora said...

Yes you will be in all our prayers. We love you all.

Julie said...

I read this just in time to pray for your surgery tomorrow.

Wow, you two are really fertile!

Becky Swann said...

been praying...still am!